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The Problem


Your journey in the realm of love and relationships may feel like an unending roller-coaster.

You’ve been on numerous dates, embarked on relationships hoping they’d last, but somehow, the story seems to replay itself over and over. The excitement of a new connection soon gives way to familiar issues – communication breaks down, misunderstandings multiply, or the spark fades away. Each ending leaves a scar, and with every heartache, the hope of finding that perfect companion dwindles.


Perhaps you've now reached a point where you’ve shelved the idea of finding love, resigned to the notion that the elusive 'one' is a myth. The desire for a deep, meaningful connection remains, but the fear of enduring yet another emotional upheaval holds you captive. You yearn for a love that’s not just fleeting or superficial, but a profound bond that grows and deepens with time. However, the path to such enduring love seems obscured by past experiences and an uncertain future.



But what if the root of these recurring problems lay within? What if, by turning the lens inward and embarking on a journey of self-discovery and personal growth, you could break the cycle? What if you could not only heal the scars of the past but also equip yourself with the understanding and tools necessary to build a foundation for a love that lasts?


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The Solution


Creating The One isn’t about seeking the perfect person amidst a sea of faces

It's about embarking on a transformative journey to become the one person your ideal mate is yearning for. It's about unearthing the version of yourself that is ready to both give and receive the kind of love you’ve always desired.


Our tailored education and personalized exercises offer a holistic approach to self-improvement and relationship readiness. This journey begins by fostering a deep understanding of your own desires, values, and behaviors. Through reflection and guided learning, you’ll uncover the potential barriers to lasting love and learn how to dismantle them.


But the transformation doesn’t stop with self-awareness. The next phase is about growth and acquiring the tools to build healthy, enduring relationships. Our exercises encourage the development of essential relationship skills such as communication, empathy, and conflict resolution. They challenge you to elevate yourself, to become someone capable of fostering a nurturing and fulfilling relationship.


Moreover, we’ll guide you in constructing a life that is not only appealing to your ideal partner but fulfilling for you. A life brimming with joy, purpose, and a welcoming space for love to flourish. This isn’t about changing who you are, but about amplifying your best self and creating a conducive environment for a love that is enriching and enduring.


As you traverse this path, you are not alone. The community of like-minded individuals on a similar journey provides a network of support, enriching your experience and propelling you forward towards your goal.


With Creating The One, the quest for love shifts from an external pursuit to an internal voyage of discovery and growth. It’s about building a sturdy foundation upon which a loving, lasting relationship can thrive.


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By Sean Hyde November 15, 2020
Wayyyyy back in 1938 a sociologist named Willard Waller first coined the idea of the principle of least interest in his book The Family: A Dynamic Interpretation. Waller put forth that in all of his research around relationship dynamics, that he almost never observed equal power between people in a dating relationship. He theorized that the primary cause of this was the due to the principle of least interest, the idea that the person with the least interest in continuing a relationship has the least to lose, and therefore the most power. The idea is that one partner always gets more out of the relationship, whether it's money, physical stimulation, ego stimulation, or just all the warm and fuzzies, so the person giving that fulfillment gets less for their investment and will be more willing to walk away.
By Sean Hyde November 9, 2020
It seems like more people than ever are battling loneliness and a need for connection as the pandemic makes us more hesitant to connect with new people than ever. If you find yourself alone more than usual and wondering how you can find love in the new world that just added a whole bevy of new challenges, we have tips that will make sure you are ready to find and create new love under any circumstances. 1. You might “find love when you stop looking for it”, but only if you are ready… One of my closest friends likes to regularly say “You know who catches the most fish? Fisherman.” And then coyly follows that statement up with a not-so-subtle request for a compliment. So you know who probably gets the most dates? The person trying to have the most dates by regularly asking for them. But if that’s not you (it’s not me either it’s ok), then the next best option is to be the person fisherman like to bring their fish to first. Ok, I don’t think I’d like people walking up to me and offering me fish randomly either, but we all appreciate the compliment of someone requesting our time and attention…don’t we? So what if instead of being the person constantly chasing down dates and playing the numbers game, you became the person that people wanted to chase? You might be saying I’m not “insert self deprecating comment here” enough for that to ever happen, but I promise you that’s not true. How do I know? Because I got more dates when I was old, overweight, and cranky then I ever did when I was young, super fit and excited about everything. And it’s just logical. Think about it, if you want to find the perfect job, do you just go look for the perfect job, or do you also do what you can to become the perfect person for that job? And if you actually become the perfect person for that job, do people just start seeking you out for those kind of jobs? They do. Kind of like how a bank never wants to lend you money when you desperately need it, but will literally throw money at you when you don’t…when you don’t need a date, when you don’t feel needy for companionship, it shows up all over the place. We’ve all seen the darker side of that when people talk about how they suddenly got so much more attention from the opposite sex once they got married. Does that little ring of metal around your finger have mystical powers, or could it be more than that? If you become the perfect partner, ready for the perfect relationship, the perfect partner will show up, and now is the perfect time to do that. For more on that, check out our blog on becoming the perfect partner here, but for now, consider that falling in love with yourself, and giving yourself the gift of becoming the perfect partner, might just be the first step in finding true love. How are you even going to fall in love with someone else completely if you can’t even do that for yourself? 2. Go where your tribe is You want to know the best way to meet the perfect person while also becoming the perfect person? Spend more times in the places and with the people that help you grow. So many of us obsess over where to meet the perfect person. Is it online? Is it at a bar? Am I told old for that bar? Should I ask my friends to set me up? Is it ok to date that girl from work? Is it ok to date that guy from church? What better place to find the ideal partner, than the place that makes you feel your best? If you love dancing, then dance events, dance lessons, dance parties, holding your own dance party, galas and other fundraisers that offer dancing, public music events where dancing is encouraged, dances held by local organizations, dance camps, dance conferences, weekend dance workshops, etc. etc. etc. offer ideal settings for meeting people that share at least one of your passions as a mutual interest. And as a bonus, you will feel amazing while meeting these new people. Meeting people doing what they love, while you are doing what you love at the same time sounds like a halfway decent recipe for success doesn’t it? Even if Mr. or Mrs. right isn’t at that event, their sister/brother/coworker/mom/best friend probably is and what a way to start getting into the right circles…while also giving yourself the energy and attention you deserve to grow and thrive and become the best version of yourself. If you can’t think of many good places that bring your passions together, sign up for our free mini-workshop here, and in five minutes you’ll have more activities than you could imagine that will put you in place to meet the perfect partner, while also developing into the perfect partner. 3. Stay focused on the prize If you spend all day focused on how there aren’t any good partners left out there, that’s all you will see…and more importantly that’s what you will start to embody. There is no faster way to become undatable, unlovable, and downright unhappy than to believe that finding love is impossible. Because guess what? We’re humans and we like to be right, it’s a survival mechanism at our basest level. So if you get up every day asking what’s going to go wrong on your date tonight, or what crappy thing is gonna happen today to prove that men suck or that women are all crazy, your brain will spend all day focused on proving your right. Get focused on possibility and things that will excite you and watch the world around you change instantly. Also, stay focused in general. If you have your face in your phone all day like 90% of the people out there, you will (literally) miss Mr. or Mrs. right walking right on by. Not to mention even if they walked right up to you and started talking to you that you wouldn’t’ be able to hold a conversation because your brain would be screaming “Check Instagram to see how many hearts that post got!!!!!” Get clear on what you want, instead of clear on what you don’t, and stay focused on it and the world around you. 4. Plan for the long term Unless you are just looking for a temporary distraction, it makes sense to get into a relationship planning to create a partnership not just a whirlwind romance. It's easy to get caught up in the excitement and make a lot of concessions to keep feeling passionate and alive in the moment, but that never works long term. What's important to you is still going to be important to you once the rose colored glasses of new love go away, so make sure you and your new crush are compatible in all of the critical ways. He or she won't change, and neither will you with (extremely) rare exception, so accept them and yourself for who you are and be honest about if that can work long term. If security is important to you, that live for today mentality of the empty bank account might be exciting for a bit, but it will be a big point of contention before you know it if your dreamer isn't dreaming up a long term plan for creating that security you crave. 5. Create the feeling first. Too many of us are searching for someone to make us feel better...when the truth is the only one that can make us feel good is ourselves. If you aren't happy single you won't be happy in a relationship long term either...and you won't attract the right kind of partner. People who feel good about themselves attract people who feel good about themselves. People that feel broken attract other broken people or people looking for projects. The problem is most people looking for projects are doing that to hide from the fact that they have a lot of self improvement projects they've been avoiding themselves. Becoming the best version of yourself is one of the best ways to attract the best possible partner for yourself. So if you find yourself constantly attracting the wrong people, it's time to accept that you are the common denominator in those relationships and somewhere along the relationship journey you are accepting less than you deserve. So take time to remind yourself of what a rockstar you are. Handle the unfinished business in your life, start that project you've been putting off, try something new and exciting, and create the life you want now, a life the perfect partner will just naturally fit into.
By Sean Hyde November 3, 2020
A lot of people feel like healthy relationships are one of two things: A fairy tale, or pure luck. I'm going to show you that healthy relationships, all kinds of relationships: romantic, friendship, business, etc. can be fun, rewarding, and easy.
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